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The Spoon Theory and Energy Budgeting for Neurodivergent Minds
Understanding limited mental energy, preventing burnout, and reclaiming rest without guilt If you’ve ever felt like getting through a...
Andrew Linder
Aug 14, 20256 min read


Unlearning Perfectionism: Why “Good Enough” Is More Than Enough
Discover why perfectionism often develops in neurodivergent people and how embracing “good enough” can reduce burnout, boost progress, and support healing.
Emily Linder
Aug 7, 20256 min read


Time Blindness and the Struggle to Stay on Track
Struggling with time blindness? Learn why traditional time management fails neurodivergent minds—and discover shame-free tools to improve time awareness.
Emily Linder
Jul 31, 20256 min read


Accommodations Are Not Cheating: The Importance of Support Systems
Accommodations aren’t cheating—they’re essential. Learn why self-support tools matter, how shame blocks them, and how to find what works for your brain.
Emily Linder
Jul 24, 20256 min read


The Shame Spiral: How to Break Free from the Cycle of Self-Blame
Break free from shame spirals with self-compassion. Learn how shame affects your mind and gentle strategies to reclaim your worth and motivation.
Emily Linder
Jul 17, 20255 min read


Dopamine, Interest-Based Thinking, and Why “Discipline” Isn’t the Answer
Why discipline doesn’t work for neurodivergent brains. Learn how dopamine, interest-based thinking, and smart structure fuel real motivation.
Emily Linder
Jul 10, 20255 min read


The Emotional Tax of Masking: Unpacking the Long-Term Costs
Discover the emotional toll of masking in neurodivergent individuals—how it leads to burnout, identity loss, and the healing journey of unmasking safely.
Emily Linder
Jul 3, 20256 min read


Why “Should” Is a Dirty Word: Releasing Neurotypical Expectations
“ I should be able to do this without help. ” “ I should already have figured this out. ” “ I should get up earlier. Should meal prep....
Emily Linder
Jun 26, 20256 min read


The Myth of Laziness: Understanding Executive Dysfunction
If you’ve ever stared at a to-do list, willing yourself to start, only to feel paralyzed instead, you’re not alone. For neurodivergent...
Emily Linder
Jun 19, 20256 min read


Productivity Without Punishment: How to Work With Your Brain, Not Against It
Work with your brain, not against it. Explore neurodivergent-friendly productivity tools like body doubling, gamification, and external structure.
Emily Linder
Apr 19, 20253 min read


Impulse Control and ADHD: Understanding and Managing Impulsivity
Understanding and managing the role of impulse control and ADHD
Emily Linder
Mar 26, 20253 min read


Motivation vs. Momentum: Understanding ADHD and Task Initiation Without Shame
A man stands somberly under the trees, wearing a sign labeled "FAILURE" around his neck, evoking a sense of personal reflection amidst...
Emily Linder
Mar 19, 20253 min read


Rolling for Wellness: The Key Differences Between Recreational and Therapeutic Dungeons & Dragons
Dungeons & Dragons (D&D), the iconic tabletop role-playing game (TTRPG), has grown immensely in popularity over the last few decades....
Emily Linder
Sep 10, 20245 min read


The Power of Mutual Appreciation in Healthy Relationships
In every meaningful relationship, there are key elements that help it thrive and grow. Among these, mutual appreciation stands out as a...
Emily Linder
Aug 21, 20244 min read


Finding Fun and Enjoyment in Healthy Relationships
When we think about healthy relationships, we often focus on communication, trust, and support. While these elements are crucial, one of...
Emily Linder
Jul 30, 20243 min read


The Journey of Individual Growth in Healthy Relationships
In the grand tapestry of life, our relationships play a crucial role. They shape us, support us, and sometimes challenge us to become...
Emily Linder
Jul 16, 20244 min read


Cultivating Shared Values and Goals in Healthy Relationships
Welcome to week 7 of our Healthy Relationship Series! Healthy relationships thrive on a foundation of shared values and goals. These...
Emily Linder
Jul 10, 20245 min read


The Importance of Support in Healthy Relationships
Welcome to week 6 of our Healthy Relationship Series! When we think about the foundations of a healthy relationship, we often envision...
Emily Linder
Jun 25, 20243 min read


Navigating Conflict: Building Stronger Bonds in Healthy Relationships
Welcome to week 5 of our Healthy Relationships Series! Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, whether it's with a partner,...
Emily Linder
Jun 13, 20244 min read


Building Bridges: The Role of Empathy in Healthy Relationships
Welcome to week 4 of our Healthy Relationships series! In the journey of life, relationships are the bridges that connect us to others,...
Andrew Linder
Jun 5, 20243 min read
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